Shall blog about today . Its some reunion dinner day , and its also a day that mom would cook the best dishes , and its also a day that my family and i had the most quietest dinner of the year . Shan't talk about the unhappy stuffs , cause they just spoil my chinese new year . Had mushrooms , egg , tofu , spinach , fish and spicy japanese cucumber for dinner . Quite simple , but awesome (: Shall talk about siblings . Heard from many of my friends that younger siblings were annoying and irritating . Thinking back , i was a younger sibling too . In fact , i was the youngest . And hearing from whatever bro has got to say about me when i was young , if i were him , i wouldn't tolerate such a sister for altogether more than 10 years . They said i would go into their room when they were studying for their exams , and started to take away their stationeries , books , and other stuffs that they need for the exam . And when they had no choice but to snatch them away from me , i'll just start crying , and that's when they both got scolded by mom for so called "bullying" me . HAH , i don't know if i should laugh about it , cause if i were them , i've no patience for all these nonsense , especially during the period of time when i'll be having my exams . I thought i'll just lock my younger sibling up in a room and make sure i'll only let him or her out after i have finished my studying to prevent them from getting on my nerves while studying . I know that sounds really mean and "cruel" , but still , that's me (: I've friends , juniors , seniors or same age , many of them had younger siblings , and they find them annoying and they didn't really treat them well . What i told them was that , treat them like as though they were your age , whether they're irritating or not . Cause after all , they'll mature and realised that whatever they're doing is annoying to others and they'll also have more brains to think of what's right and what's wrong . Come on , i'm a younger sibling too . And i can totally understand how all younger sibilings feel when the older sibling didn't treat them well and take as though they didn't exist . It wasn't good , in fact it was really really really terrible , and i dare admit i cried alot when i was young cause of these stupid things . But after i reached the age of 12 , my siblings started to treat me better , cause they knew that i've grown . And they'll start to understand you better and treat you more like an adult , because it was indeed true that you're growing up . In fact , sometimes they even listened to whatever i've got to say . They won't be like : " mei mei shut up , you don't know anything . " You'll feel that you got your place at home , and in them . And the feeling was indeed a comfort for me . I didn't thought they'll treat me any better when i grow up . Yeah , in the end they did . I was glad (: Now i get : " mei mei , any objection ? " HAH , thank God i've got pillars to support at home now . (:

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